Rate your boyfriend
The perfect boyfriend? Yeah, right!What makes a boyfriend good, or bad? What are the best gifts to give a boyfriend?
Alright, I'm a guy. I've probably been a good boyfriend to some, and a bad boyfriend to others. Let's face it, men are from Mars and women are from Venus - there is no way to get around that.
Still, what makes a good boyfriend? Does he just do whatever you want?
What makes a bad boyfriend? Does he just do whatever he wants?
And, listen, when it's time for a gift, get us what we want. Don't get us tickets for some play so we can be together. If you want us to be together, reserve a funky hotel room for us to get together!!!
When in doubt, men always like a good electronic gadget as a gift.
Labels: boyfriends, gifts
posted by Dahcredyns @ 5:19 PM
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he calls me very less, about twice a week
he never drive me,,reasons are his parents dont allow
he is lazy
he is not well-motivated
#1 whta on 2005-12-28 02:26
(Reply) my boyfriend left to visit family in kentucky to visit his family and didn't even tell me,his friends did! Worst of all he hasn't called since he went i talked to his mom and he might not be coming back and hasn't called to tell me
#1.1 Summer (Link) on 2006-07-20
18:17 (Reply) i totally know what you mean...
i took my friend, for his 18th birthday and my boyfriend and some other friends came. everything was fine until we actually got there. i had forgotten my ID and my boyfriend just left and stayed inside to with strippers and didnt come and check on me once. what a dick. even the birthday boy came out to make sure everything was okay/ i have a right to be pissed right? i mean guys can be sooo rude i broke up with him... but now i forgave him and im going to move in with him, am i stupid or what?
#1.1.1 saleigh on 2006-09-29 11:41
(Reply) in think the perfect boyfriend shows you he loves you now matter where or who he is around!
#1.1.2 hope harmanson on 2007-01-12 13:08
(Reply) hey i no excatally what u mean my bf broke up with me after 2 weeks then he asked me out agian and i couldnt resist hes the best now hes getting me gifts and everything for v- day he got me a diamond neacklace so girls give ur man a 2 chance
#1.1.3 sam Crowell on 2007-02-15 17:33
(Reply) Mine didn't call to wish me luck for my driving test - or to congratulate me that I passed. That's a bit rubbish.
#2 Lily on 2006-03-22 13:17
(Reply) HE has to fit at Least one of these criteria's
• COMPLETELY satisfies you sexually.
• Knows how to show affection, mix of physically and emotional, doesn’t work if it’s just one.
• Gives his girl a sense of security, this is based on his goal orientation and not his earning capability.
• Pamperers your with gift and take you to nice places
SHE can
• COMPLETELY satisfies you sexually.
#3 gee on 2006-05-14 00:41
(Reply) I think a good Boyfriend
shows affection in any kind of way.
he respects you,treats you good
and helps out around the house.
he's gotta be loyal.
completely honest and just is comfortable with you..not pretending to be somebody or act a certain way when his guy buddies are around.
but that's me
#4 Lyssa on 2006-07-04 03:55
(Reply) It then begs the question...Why are you here?
#4.1 Ivy on 2006-08-04 10:34
(Reply) this site is retarded. anyone who needs to go online to bash thier boyfriend has inasne security problems. WE DONT CARE!
#5 Anna on 2006-07-22 11:37
(Reply) hello my name is jade
#6 jade (Link) on 2006-08-01 15:35
(Reply) my bf is the best ever. he drives me to work, buys me what i need,well unless i let him know.he once bought mewhat i always wanted to eat,pickles!!!
he brings food at the table, kissesme allthe time, tellsme he loves me, cleans the bedroom and living area., washes the dishes and clothes,and delivers the greatest sex ever! all i do is make him scream my name and make him come everyday!!! even though i dont!! its fine. i please him,he pleases me..what more would i want?
#7 Lekker on 2006-11-06 01:00
(Reply) yeah deasr..you are the stupidiest one yet..i wouldnt forgive mine if he ever did that to me...you should ave atleast given hima gard time then...its your life...think about what you want and your happiness gal!!! cheers!!!
#8 Lekker on 2006-11-06 01:08
(Reply) My boyfriend is pretty selfish most of the time.
He rarely buys me anything. He never takes the time to come and visit me (I am always the one to go and see him!!). He rarely calls me.
I spend hours getting ready to see him, I dress up and do my hair nice and he doesn't even comment on how I look. Just for once I would like him to say "You look really nice today".
#9 Brittany on 2006-11-18 03:51
(Reply) i thought i always had it extremly rough. i guess its kind of relieving to hear im not the only one in this situation.
My guy never calls me. never. i always have to call him. and when we're on the phone, he has to make up lame excuses to call me back like "can i call you back just so you cant say i dont call you?!" its horrible.
we never hang out on the weekends. He'll say things like im sick, or my parents say i need rest, or im realllly tired!.. are you kidding me??
Its really hard to maintain a relationship with a guy that never keeps in touch with you!
he acts differently around him friends. he's a totally different guy when its just me and him. im just small talk when we're at school or something, but when we're alone its totally different. i hate it.
we argue constantly and he never lets me win an argument! he tries to forget our problems when we havent even resolved them so i dont see how thats making it any better.
He doesnt stand up for me. I could be rolling around on the floor in pain and i think all he would do is stand next to me but look around aimlessly like nothings happening.
I honestly feel his friends are more important than me. i know what sounds bitchy but if you were in my situation, youd understand. like... im pretty sure iv been blown off so he could hang with his best friend...when they see eachother every week..and i barely see him.
we've talked about ALL this a TON of times, but he's never changed. I cried/cry almost every night now. and i know thats absolutly pathetic...but the way he USED to act made me fall in love with him and i dont want to leave him.
its apperant i cant change him but i dont wanna leave him...what the hell do i do?
(i think iv got to be in the worst situation here yet)
#10 Sean on 2007-01-30 20:33
(Reply) I think boyfriends "r" boyfriends, my fella was as above the most gentle man on earth, bought me every thing I ever wanted congratulated me on every thing I done!, If I was in an empty room with just him that would be just perfect, BUT!!!!! We all get a big but!!! Things change and we all change and people get jealous, I hate him now and I'm going to write a book about men. I know there are some lovely ones out there though. xxx
#11 obviously insane on 2007-02-10 16:43 (Reply)
i hate eris naco.....he is rude, doesnt call, leaves me by myself, doenst stand up 4 me, he never buys..i pay 4 everything....i make all the efforts and he makes none. if it wasnt for me then i would be dating myself and myself only!!
that sucks that so many girls on here are having so many problems with their boyfriends. However, I've been there. I've been married and divorced and had some REALLY shity boyfriends..however..I must say I have found a wonderful boyfriend who does call me everyday. write me love letters, nice emails, bought me a really pretty necklace that I love!! He loves my dog, and he just really loves me and treats me so well. Way better than I've ever been treated before. I must say he is the guy for me. He's the best thing that's ever happened to me and I thank god every day that he's in my life and I love him very much!!! I hope that one day you all meet someone like him because it's a wonderful feeling to have a guy like him in your life.
Met my soon to be ex last January. Said he had a business but didn't and hadn't worked in over a year(been living off of unemployment and plasma donations). Found out that this whole time he had his profile up on several dating sites and kept getting strange women calling at all hours. The real kicker was when I found him on the floor having a seizure his computer was on and he had a im up with a womans dirty pictures and their messages that afternoon (I came home early from work). That was the end of the relationship for me. Since he professed that he was a Christian Man and abhored porn (when I went on his computer to delete any photographs of me (nothing dirty)I found all these pron movies and nasty pictures of other women. I also found out from a neighbor when she heard that I was leaving that he has been through every woman in our small community and has had over two hundred women staying or visiting him in the last 2 1/2 yrs. I know hard to beleive, but God as my witness it's all true. Wish I had a way to warn others of him so they would not be as hurt as I was. From a small town (WF) in NW Arkansas.
Heyy.. I just wanted to say that I have been with my boyfriend for over 18 months and he's amazing =].
Yes we've both messed up in the past but we've forgiven and forgotten and it's made us so close. And after everything we've been through there was no point in giving up.
When I first met him, I knew he was speicial and knew I wanted to be with him, he then got back with his ex and was with her for six months. He was scared of being alone but never really loved her. We kissed and it was the most amazing kiss ever it was from that point that we just knew we had to be together no matter what and we've been together ever since.
I've been through alot and sometimes get upset bt he's always there-helping me. He's never selfish and never complains. He's always randomly buying me stuff like chocolate and underwear and he spends so much on me when we are out.
We have so much in common lol. We both love graffiti and rap but also listen to rock but we tend to dress as him 'skater' and me 'emo' it's just what we feel comfortable in and he is a little skater.
He hasn't ever stopped being sweet and I'm always going to love him with all my heart-my strange little baby lol. I don't ever waant to lose him. I know we were meant to meet.
Sorry this is so long just love him so much :D
He's everything to me and I would do anything for him. I love him so much and couldn't imagine my life without him he's... Perfect.
If perfection is impossible then my boyfriend comes close to it.
We have only been together one month, and already declared our love for each other.
His love for me is so strong, i can see it in his eyes every time he looks at me, i can feel it in his touch, i can hear it in the beat of his heart.
Every love song i hear, the lyrics remind me of him and our relationship together.
I love him and he loves me, and that's something everyone strives to experience.
my boyfriend is just an asshole.
I'd give him maybe 3 out of 10
1. He never ever calls me
2. He never seems to be enthusiasitc to be with me.
(ladies, I did not have any places
to go for the break and I asked
him if I can stay with him and he was
such an asshole about it.)
3. He totally flirts with
his best friend who is a hippie
bitch
4. He never ever never never
shows any PDA. never holds my
hand, never walks beside me.
5.He says stuff like "I am
evaluating my position" when
we talk about our relationship.
what?! what position? YOu better
hope that you like me to certain
degree to date me???
6. He puts up nasty picture
he's taken with his x-girlfriend
and says things like I slept with
90% of the chics I am friends with.
My bf supports me. He asked me to move in with him and he takes good care of me financially. But he leaves the house without telling me and doesnt take his phone. he acts completely different around people and ignores me. He never wants to spend time with me. He's always with his friends. He talks to his best friend's gf way more and way nicer than he talks to me! I feel completely invisible sometimes. and the shitty thing is that i do live with him!
My family all lives in ohio, 2 hours away and i dont want to have to move so far away. but i feel like sometimes, it would be better to be alone and in ohio than to be alone in a place where i am miserable.
He yells at me, tries to act like he owns me. and my dumb ass just takes it.
My boyfriend is an enigma.
He can be sweet and mushy- or a complete asshole. I have paid for everythig for the last 11 months.The WHOLE time thinking it is because of his family troubles... and surprise... he was not supporting his family like he was supposed to- he was buying VIKES.
He has NEVER bought me a presend... NEVER taken me out in 11 months..im talking literally- NEVER.... I pay our phone bill- I paid of his student loan!
When we are together we are amazing though... now we are moving in together... God I hope he changes.. i think it is just about him being plain old selfish
:(
I just read the last 3 posts and all I can say is, DUMP YOUR BOYFRIENDS!
There are better guys out there, I promise.
Here's a hint ladies. Most nice guys will almost never come up and talk to you at a bar, in class, or whatever.
If a guy seems cool and smooth, he's probably going to be a jerk. When you're interested in finding a boyfriend, make the first move.
If you don't want a real relationship, choose the player. If you want a relationship, look for a friend and make the first move.
my boyfriend makes me SO mad.everything comes before i do. all the time. work, his friends, his truck, videogames, his computer, lierally EVERYTHING comes before time with me.
he works at a decent job with plenty of hours. they call him in and he doesnt go, then he complains about how they never schedule him. now he wants to work at a different place, 48 hours a week, til 10pm, with the weekends off. sucks that i work weekends. now well NEVER see each other.
he broke up with me then begged me to take him back 12 hours later. stupidly, i went along with it.
oh, and just yesterday i found an AIM coversation with one of his old "girl" friends...saying how much he missed her, etc etc. oddly enough, this took place the night before he broke up with me.
he's stupid and has no common sense. he never lets me know he loves me. he wastes money on stupid shit then never has enough money to take me out or come see me. its pathetic. i dont even know why im still with this loser. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr i hate him!!!!!!!
I hate my boyfriend he got me pregnant stayed with me and is making me soooo unhappy he has cause my postnatal depression and also cause d me to be in ill health (suffering from ovarian cyst)
his friends are disresceptful toward me and i hate his sisters
he has genital herpes which i never gave me i found out in my pregnancy
he complains about the things he has to do in the house lie looking after his son
i knw he has cheated
ijust hate his fucking guts
my name is joshua varley i am 9 turning 10 i have a girlfriend i realy like and love but my friend tyler is trying to steal her of me and i am running out of ideas i already lost £1965.740 bying jewlry for her but its not usefull im smarter thinner stronger sexyer kinder sensebler tylers even got ADHD for .... sake please reply i realy need help
i mthink dahcredyns he is just on of those men with 3 qurtes of a brian
im a boy but not a shit head like other boys im a sweat 9 turning fucking ten i thing some men should get a fucking life
thanks for your enlightening comments josh.
Scott Kupetz from Wappingers Falls NY (or thereabouts because he wont admit where he lives OR take you to his house) is a horrible sack of lying scum. He will tell you he is 38 (he is 48), deny he was ever married (he is divorced) and deny that he has any children (he has 2). His x-wife confirmed all this to me and this is why she divorced him in the firdst place. Beware of this "charming" dentist....either that or knock his teeth out for me.
i hate my boyfriend!!!
My last boyfriend, Simon Dzienciol, lied to me that he was 55 when he was actually 62! Then he lied to his friends to make himself look like a powerful man when in reality, he leased everything he has! I didn't care that he wasn't able to do the deed, because of his age, but he lied to his friends about that too! In short, I was very disappointed to find out I was with an extremely insecure man! He's a poser!
me an my boyfriend are together 3yrs an ar stil crazy abou eachother...he's deadly!! always ther for me wit everything!!! i love him so much an i kno he loves me too. trust me i kno some fella's ar pricks bu not all of them ar. i no my bf wud never do anythin to hurt me..we wer meant 2b =D hope everyone else finds their tru love jus like i did.
My bf is such an asshole he stares at me then when i tell him to stop (hes the one who wanted me to leave him alone so why are you looking at me?) he says leave me alone i say you were staring he says shh and just continues to give me dirty looks and laugh at me as i write this i really hate him so much and to think our 6 month is coming up not like he gives a shit i hate him.
I've been with my boyfriend for almost four years now. He has some amazing qualities, but like most men he also disappoints me sometimes. I think I'm so dumb sometimes thinking that he's the one guy in the whole world that will treat me the way I want a man to treat me, when I know that he doesn't. He can be sweet, but unfortunately that never lasts long. When I want to spend time with him he always has an excuse: he already spent time with me yesterday, his friends want him to be with them, he's going to his cousin's house (those two seem like they are the love birds, except they are both guys and NOT gay), he has no money, he has to do the laundry, he's too tired, we always do the same thing, he hasn't gone partying with his friends (for a whole two days), he's going to see me at church instead, he wants to go to his brother's house and hangout (his brother is married and still acts like a little kid), or some other dumb excuse. I really wish I didn't have to try so freakin' hard to be with MY BOYFRIEND! I'm the one who calls him to see how he's doing, wakes him up in the morning (whenever he doesn't get up at 5 am), goes to see him, takes him out to eat, buys him little things to show the "love", writes him poems, calls his mom to see if he really did eat, meet his whole family and talk intensively with them (while they grill me about our relationship), have to spend all of my money on things he should be able to pay for since he makes like triple the amount of money that I make, and just makes all the effort in the relationship. I have told him all this, he tells me he is going to change and then doesn't. I kinda broke up with him once, but I love him so much that he actually convinced rather tricked me into believing that he was going to change, he didn't though. Sure he doesn't think it's right for me to hang out with nothing but guys, since I'm a girl, but how else am I supposed to be with him if he won't leave them to be with me? Even my mom, dad, his own cousins, his mom, his dad, his grandpa, and his new sister-in-law, tell me to leave him, because they see how much I'm hurting. Honestly, I think that sometimes I'm going out with myself because he doesn't put out the effort. Maybe it's just me being conceited but I think I'm such a good girlfriend that I make up the loss of love from him and give it to him. I'm always trying to find new ways to show him how much I care about him, but I swear I don't think he gives a crap about it. I only wish that he would see that even though I try to show him nothing but love, our relationship is on very, very, very, thin ice.
I might have made my boyfriend, whom I love very much to be a big jerk, but really ladies we must learn to appreciate the small things that they really are doing for us. For example, my boyfriend does tell me he loves me, does come up to me just to kiss me, does all those other really romantic things, but sometimes we ladies miss that since we are generally the kind of people who want to be showered in that kind of stuff. With guys its completely different, they like being treated like babies, they want to be taken care of, they want you to love them, yet the want you to have the strength to be considered one of the "guys". That's a guys dream girl and honestly, how many of us live up to be what every guy wants? Not very many ladies do, that's why guys have to have their time with the boys, so they can take out all the "machoness" inside of them and when THEY have time for us they will do the dumbest things to try and impress us. It is very obvious that they don't really accomplish this, but if the guys want to keep on believing that they do, then lets just make them keep on believing that they do, since it makes them feel good inside. My boyfriend can really WOW me with all of the really stupid things that he does. Just recently for example, he was having a lot of fun at a wedding and he decided to make everyone laugh, since he thinks he's the life of the party, and he got a decoration and... My smart boyfriend bit the head off of a porcelain wedding decoration. The funny thing was that by trying to act cool he scraped his check with the decoration and it left him bleeding. I started to laugh because I thought it was really dumb that he did that. I asked him what he was going to tell his mom and dad, happened to him, he said he was going to tell them he got hit by a branch. But you know what ladies, it's stuff like that that keeps me with this amazing guy! It's probably just us P-M-S-ing sometimes, but our boyfriend's really do try.
My Boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years in november. We call eachother everynight to say goodnight and I love you. We didnt start saying I love you till after we were together for a year. He doesn't like to text or the phone very much which kinda upsets me cause I love to talk on the phone. When I got in a car accident he came to the scene in 20 mins and he lives 35 mins away so I know he must have been speeding.. He hugged me so tight and spent the day with me just holding me. For valentines day I woke up to flowers, two huge stuff animal puppies, huge box of candy & huge balloons. Also we went to dinner. He bought me a ipod for the 2nd birthday that we were together and the 1st b-day we we were not even dating and he bought me purfume and gave me 50 dollars. 1st x-mas together he gave me 100$ gift card to victoria secrets. 2nd x-mas i got 60$ gift card to hollister, purfume, and a bellybutton ring. He drives down at least 4 times a week from clearwater to see me and most of the time its even like 6 to 7 times a week. We are 3 years apart but we get along pretty well. We broke up one time for 4 months but we were still seeing eachother and I think it made us stronger. I love him so much and I believe that he is my first true boyfriend. Alot of relationships fail but I think you have to be with the right person to actually make it work. So many people plan their whole life out after 6 months.. saying they are going to get married but i think id rather just live everyday as it comes. but Him and I do fight and he complains on how ive gained weight since we started dating I got comfortable around him and just started not to car.. I was a size 3 or 5 when I first started dating him and now im a 7. It makes me really depressed. Sometimes hes really selfish and he doesnt care if sometimes tells him he is.. or mean cause he knows it. He is very honest and he will tell someone straight up how he is feeling.. I really wish he could open up and not be so cold hearted. He isnt just this way to me he is this way to his friends and mom and dad too. I think hes a good boyfriend but I think he could use some improvement on the emotional part.
Unfortunately gurls, as much as we hate to believe it, we are often to blame as well as the boys for why so many relationships aren't working...
Guys can recognize and accept a short term thing (which is important to men to hone their skills and experiment sexually) but lots of chicks try to stretch it out as long as possible for fear of wasting all that time and effort.
It's important that girls are just as understanding and non-judgemental to the male nature as we expect them to be to ours.
Without this understanding, there will always be conflict.
If you listen without judgement, punishment or anger, he will be yours forever! -And if he's a good bloke and not an asshole, he will return the favor.
Take it from me, when you've found the one, you both feel it, beyond a shadow of a doubt. If you are in a relationship where, deep deep down, you know it will not last forever; it means that that BF is a warm-up, a practise if you will, for the real thing. Therefore, it is extrememly valuable still, as long as you take the lessons from the difficulties it will force you to face.
I reckon the main problem is that both Men and Women often choose to be completely ignorant of the differences between the sexes.
It's common for one to expect the other to be the same as themselves, when this can never be the case.
It may sound slightly cliche but the best resourse is actually the book 'Men are from Mars, Women are From Venus.' It really speaks to both men and women and helps bridge that gap of sexism in a relationship.
Much love to all the girlies out there, I hope this helps a bit and all goes well for you all in the future...
Always stick 2gether b'ful gals! x
Oh dear, what a mess females seem to be inducing upon themselves.
You have the power to ammend the path of your relationship, regardless of how horrible your boyfriend may be.
Why not instead of getting on here whinging about his twisted mannerisms you actually do something about them, or walk out and leave?
My current boyfriend has the potential to be one of the worst boyfriends ever. He cheated on every girl he dated in the past, he lies, he's a player, selfish, uncommitted etc etc..
Then he met me!
I forced him in line, sure I've fucked up more in our relationship, but its only drawn us closer together. He recently turned 18, but instead of clubbing and partying on weekends with his friends like most other 18 year old boys - single OR taken, he's cuddled up watching movies with me.
He used to never buy me anything, ever. At the beginning of our relationship on my birthday all he got me were flowers. Six months down the track he buys me smokes, lends me money if I need it, takes me out for dinner, brings me lunch on his work break when im sick at home, picks me up from school when im sick. He pays when we go out, pays for everything virtually! Buys me presents all the time as suprises. he never sees his friends, especially if I dislike the particular friends. Then they aren't his friends :]
Just yesterday he turned up with a big bunch of flowers and a diamond necklace because he'd been saying hurtful comments to me lately.
If I hadn't of been as articulate and assertive as I know I am, he would be nowhere near as sweet. Who would keep him in line?
Girls have some fucking pride! Don't accept nothing less than the best treatment.
High mantinence? You only live once, you might as well live in contentment with a man who believes you are the shit and who listens, respects and pretty much kisses the ground you walk upon.
Now I learnt this the hard way, so don't say I don't know what its like. Bad relationships with disobedient men were my middle name before I learnt how to dig my claws in and compel like crazy.
The majority of men will never respect the 'ideal woman'. They lose interest within weeks, bordem plauges them and who really enjoys virtue and predictability?
Learn how to push his buttons, learn how to articulate your thoughts. Show him your independant and you know what you want. Men don't want a dependant whinging doormat to flaunt and love. They will be intimidated and shocked by a confident and smart woman.
I can't blame the fuckwitt guys for treating some of you the way they do, don't accept nothing, NOTHING but the best. If they don't believe the world revolves around you, then they will never completely commit. They will stray.
Take control, the power is in your hands.
My boyfriend started out as a great boyfriend (oh wait, don't they ALL start out that way?).
I made the first move. Maybe that was the mistake.
We had an issue in the beginning where he wouldn't shut up about his most recent ex and her two kids. It made me feel worse when I discovered that his cell phone wall paper was STILL a pic of her kids, and I came to find out she is bleach blonde, perfect skin, no more than 100 lbs, can't tell she's had 2 kids, perfect big breasts.......now I'm a pretty confident girl and I consider myself way above average looking but I am shaped more womanly and muscular/toned and I keep my hair its natural color..he isn't into that. And he's never really made a huge attempt to make me feel pretty, except for a few lame attempts at telling me that my clothes were "cute" and a few times when he was drunk he said I was gorgeous. But never when sober.
What else, what else...
After only a MONTH of dating (give or take a few days) he already showed signs of losing interest. He started staying up way too late, getting no sleep, he stopped doing his chores or his daily to-do things, and started to take that frustration out on me. What I mean is he says he wants me to call, and when I do....he is grumpy, tired (I usually wake him up because he's only been sleeping for a couple of hours) and moody and snippy and sassy. Because he doesn't get enough sleep and doesn't do anything, he takes it out on me by barely speaking to me on the phone, making snippy and rude remarks, and pretty much just telling me "Whatever" constantly, raising his voice only when I ask a "stupid" question. And all I am trying to do is get him to talk!
But when he's around his friends? He is hyper, happy, perky, and good to go! When he's drinking, he's super chatty! But as this relationship has gone on, any time we spend alone together we talk less and less and less. I pretty much talk at him, just trying to get him to talk. And he will always be in a foul mood around me.
So I had enough and worked up the courage to pretty much tell him "Shit or get off the pot". He walked out and I thought it was over, but he showed up at the same bar I was at later, and he stopped at my place after bar close and told me he was sorry I feel so bad about him and that he'd try.
He tried for two whole days. The weekend ended, Monday came, and he was back to his old self again. I was dying inside a little more each day, but at the same time just wanting to kick him in the butt really hard.
I talked to him last night. He was with a friend. He was all perky and chipper. I had to call him back because I needed to get ready for work.....when I called him back, he was back home and cranky and moody again.
I can't take it anymore. I can do so much better than this. I deserve to be treated better than this. I am kicking his worthess butt to the curb in just a few hours....wish me luck!
hmm...
My boyfriend pretty much ruined my 17th Birthday this year...The moment it turned 12.00AM he says, "...I dont think this is working out...Honestly, im sick and tired..."
we argue a lot, and the day after my birthday would have been 5 months... but he doesnt wanna break up..?
the actual day of my birthday, my friends and HIS friends took me to dinner...he didnt plan it. he just came along..and when everyone said happy birthday and stuff, he didnt say anything. let alone, give me anything. like, i dont care if its bought or made. he could've jst made a card or something sweet. but he didnt...
i pay for everything...literally, he asks me for money..and when i say why? he gives me a reason...for example - My birthday he asked me to buy him new headlights for his car...cause he has no money=_= that really ticked me off. cause, first off. its not my car, and secondly, its my money. not his. like, he thinks the money i earn, is his also. Even though he doesnt have a job or anything.
but amazingly enough, i still love him. even though everyone i know or told these also other things to, believe i should leave him.
Jerome Tyler Russell II
DOB 9-9-1973 SSN 304-94-6897
2970 Plaza Dr, Apt B
Indianapolis, IN 46260
cell 317-250-0649
hm 317-876-2945
wk 317-329-3700
Con Agra
4300 W 62nd st
Indianapolis
Jerome Tyler Russell II
DOB 9-9-1973 SSN 304-94-6897
2970 Plaza Dr, Apt B
Indianapolis, IN 46260
cell 317-250-0649
hm 317-876-2945
wk 317-329-3700
Con Agra
4300 W 62nd st
Indianapolis
Jerome Tyler Russell II
DOB 9-9-1973 SSN 304-94-6897
2970 Plaza Dr, Apt B
Indianapolis, IN 46260
cell 317-250-0649
hm 317-876-2945
wk 317-329-3700
Con Agra
4300 W 62nd st
Indianapolis
Jerome Tyler Russell II
DOB 9-9-1973 SSN 304-94-6897
2970 Plaza Dr, Apt B
Indianapolis, IN 46260
cell 317-250-0649
hm 317-876-2945
wk 317-329-3700
Con Agra
4300 W 62nd st
Indianapolis
Jerome Tyler Russell II
DOB 9-9-1973 SSN 304-94-6897
2970 Plaza Dr, Apt B
Indianapolis, IN 46260
cell 317-250-0649
hm 317-876-2945
wk 317-329-3700
Con Agra
4300 W 62nd st
Indianapolis
me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3weeks and just last we both found out that his mother and his sister hate me because they think that he spends more time with me then with them but thats not ture we only get to spend an hour with each other becaues he has to work all the time and i only get to see him at school and after school and thats it so i dont know why they hate me so much is there anything i can do to change there minds about me what have i ever done to them to deserve this i just want me and his family to get along is that to much to ask for?
that bitch been goin out three weeks? man ive been wit my boy for over a year now and WE'RE SO IN LOVE. fuck all you haters ive the best boyfriend ever ever. he loves me too and we're just cool together you know?
peace x
OH.. i forgot to say whats good about MY BOYFRIEND. hes the best. hes caring, loving, thoughtful and he supports my man barack. I love him becos i fucked up this week and i think he might still love me.xx
OH he just phoned..he dont love me nowhere.
its been real peeps.
I LOVE MCCAIN X
He never buys me anything but spends ridiculous amounts of money on unnecessary things like 5 phones, 2 skateboards and a computer for himself, he rarely calls and is almost ALWAYS "too tired" to come and see me, I have to blister my feet going to see him and his mum and sister hate me for no reason. I am very depressed and I wish he would just call me or bring me some flowers or something kind..he ditches off to town every chance he gets, I'm so annoyed with him at the moment and feel that he's changed from the sweet, loving, attentive guy I fell in love with to a selfish git. Worse still he has started smoking and I cannot live with this. :( :(
He wants to love me but is still playing around and always choosing other girls over me.
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he has never understood what i say he just does what he wants i let him someone give me some advice im desperate.
hang in there anonomous you will get him back to get my boyfreind to quit smoking i gave him 2 choices a me or b the ciggarettes it worked but he works late now i dont know what to do i really love him but does he yesterday he asked me to marry him i said yes but will i be happy or will i devorce i cant live without him hes my baby and hes my best freind weve been dating for 5 years he finnaly poopped the question im ready to settle down but i cant stop having fun im only 28 for petes sake and for the love of anything we have a 3 year old son please this is an sos i dont know what to do he loves me i know it but im scared please help.
God.. my bf. Well ive taken im back three times nw. But he continues to never talk to me face to face, its by email or text. IM THE ONE who has to tell him that i love him, its stupid. Cant let go tho
my boyfriend is the worst ever! He all most totaly ignores me. At school i get a small wave. We never talk or kiss. (much less hug) He taking me to 3 highschool dances so far. Not once did he slow dance with me! I am always the one buying him gifts on holidays. not him just me. He calls me mabey once every 3 months! Plus i havent been to a movie date in 6 months. He is the most selfesh, lowlife, jerk in the world!! What do i do? I still love him but......
My (ex) boyfriend called maybe twice a week...one excuse for a Friday night blowoff was that he was seeing a "priest" (he went to Notre Dame)...next thing ya know, I have an STD. Hence the "ex" part of it
well myboyfriendjumped on my chest, and said" stop complaining,and my breast were cheap, so i responded dat he cant afford , then he said i got them from sucking dick, i hate my boyfriend
Honesty is the most important. What do you do with a man that is a good boy while you're a good girl for 10 months, then suddenly starts breaking promises as soon as his much younger single friend moves over.
He loves to say he's going to lunch with this guy at 3 in the afternoon when nothing in our British town is open, and then end up going to a pub hours later instead. This is after he said he put that stage ofhis life behind him and that this guy would find friends his age to go pub crawling with. For 10 months he let me fall in love with a man that didn't go out and wanted to have children with me. But now he's a man that will say he's watching the game at his house with this bloke and then I find out he's getting trashed in a pub known for lewd behavior.
I can't stand a man that lies, even if it's by omission. When someone says they'll be doing one thing, and it changes every time to something shadier, what fool would I be to stay.
Dave A. is a narcissist who cheats throughout the entire relationship, always insisting on total devotion while unable to reciprocate. Watch out for guys like this: total charmers and a great date but in the end it's all about themselves! Not to be trusted.
My boyfriend is such a JERK.
We've been dating for 2 years and it was great, but now he changed and is so different. NOW HES A JERK. He wont hang out with me unless i go pick him up and pay for everything. Also he never calls me anymore, i try so hard to get ahold of him all the time and when i do he can never talk. He always has to go do "something."
Everytime we fight and i cry he tells me to shut up then he counts down from 5, and if i dont stop crying he hangs up on me and turns his phone off, leaving me there alone. One time after a huge fight i wanted to make everything better so i picked him up to take him out and give him a good day so he could maybe do the same for me- then he tells me that the only reason he came was so he could get sex. =(
hes a jerk. We've been together for 2 years, and now he decideds to change. I love him and i told him if he didnt want to be together then we didnt. but he claims he loves me too. Jerk =(
I've been with my boyfriend 6 months (thats the longest ive ever been with anyone). Sometimes I feel really depressed with him and other times im happy as ever. Its just that he's so selfish sometimes. like he'll ask me what movie i want to watch and when i say one hes like "no i dont like that one" and picks another one without asking me if i like it. But i know i am really rude to him sometimes, we both have flaws :/
but latley he just doesnt seem to be into me and him, i asked him about it and he said he feels like im not into us...idk
i do love him i know that, otherwise it would have been over long ago.maybe it will work itself out.
My boyfreind always tells me he loves me and then does something to show me that he doesnt. Like he always wants to watch porn and im like ok but he watches it all the time. So i tell him that i want him to stop and he says ok. then i find out that he lies to me and still does it even after we have sex. wtf? does he need that much sex? and he always wants to be with his friends.
My boyfriend the best, treats me like a queen, takes me to movies, buys me pearl necklaces, and he his junk is twice the size of my wrist. He is absolutely amazing, however there is a problem. Being a college grad student and he just graduating high school proposes some problems. I wish he could be more mature some times and the fact he gave me AIDs does add difficulty to the relationship. *Sad Face*
My boyfriend is a dog his name is Ronald Gamble from Southlake, TX he brags to show he knows how to treat a woman while decieving you be careful ladies dont get caught to this scum bag. Sadly to say his wife is a teacher at Southlake Carroll Independent school district. He says she is fat and they dont have sex so he deceives women and uses them be careful.
My X boyfriend is a total jerk! he and i have many fights still and the last one was REALLY big (but over texting) and guess what he did. He sent the whole message to one of my friends! were not that great of friends and I guess he didn't think we tell each other stuff, but we do! In the message i sliped that i don't like that one friend that much and she is now P.O.ed at me. I hate my X so much!!!
My boyfriend refuses to give me space and when he does he makes me feel guilty for just like he makes me feel guilty for going out with my friends instead of him. Theres nothing you can do to make him happy. If he says "You don't call me anymore" so you start calling him then he thinks something is up. If I try to comfort him about something, I'll say everything I can think of and more and he stills wants me to make impossible promises... and even then he's still not satisfied. He says I'm his everything but he treats me like almost nothing... I'm still waiting on my birthday gift and I've spent too much money to care on him. There are times when I feel he's only in it for the physical aspect of of this and I'm just growing tired of it.
Ok ladies..this is the absolute worst guy out there. I have read the posts other people left and still NOTHING surpasses this dude. Lets just say I talked to him for about 3 years online, just in a friendly way never intended to meet him or anything. Oddly enough he ended up moving to my friend's town and they ran into eachother and I called her the same day they were hanging out. Funny stuff right. Anyway, when I met him through her he pretended to live with his sister and rent from her. He claimed that three cars were his and he was a successful contractor at 29 yrs old. He went so far as to PRETEND to go to work when I did and when I would call he would say he got home early. Later on I found out he lived with his manic depressive mother who pops tranies like they are going out of style, his wacked out 35 yr old sister who has mental break downs at least once a week, and his poor step father who has cancer and goes to the hospital once a week and every other day for shit. He smokes weed EVERYDAY and when I met him claimed that he didn't or did occassionally. He's so hooked that he'll flip if he doesn't get it, and SOMEBODY better buy it for him or he will harass you all night long even if you leave. He never had his own business either, totally made that up, and has a revoked license and none of the cars he claimed to be his WERE EVER! He stole his MOTHERS car one day and crashed it while he was high at 4 am and wanted everyone to feel bad for him. He lied and told me he had to go to the hospital when he doesn't even have insurance to go. His poor father now has to drive this broken down piece of shit work van to his doctors. He is so terrible that one day he did lawn work and left all the shit in the van fully knowing the man needed to go to the doctor the next day and it was poking him in the back the whole way there. He is totally unmotivated, disrespectful and unappreciative of everyone. The only person he seems to care about is his half brother who doesn't want to be bothered with him unless it involves smoking. I have done everything to help this guy out in the beginning when I thought he was decent. I felt for his family that is on welfare and his poor father. I drove the guy everywhere, even got him a cellphone on my plan that he was supposed to pay me for when he did side jobs (that never happened so i returned the phone)so his mother could use their house phone to talk to doctors for the dad. I was hoping with a cell maybe some jobs would call him so he could get his life going. I even made him profiles on monster.com snagajob.com and careerbuilder.com and then after he said it all sounded great, the next day dissed me by saying he isn't taking a $400 a week job when he's used to making big money all the time. WHAT BIG MONEY DUDE? YOU'RE ALWAYS BROKE LAST TIME I CHECKED! He told my family he would build them a deck one day for free and then dicked my dad over by saying he expected to be paid. WHO DOES THAT? We went on a camping trip that I PAID FOR (of course) and he ruined the entire thing by taking down the tent and packing all the shit up IN MY CAR when all i did was fall asleep bc i had worked the earlier in the day. Give me a break. The guy is totally unrealistic too, he thinks it's completely normal at 30 years old to go out and buy $800 worth of clothes (if and when he has work) instead of paying rent or getting a car and helping his family out. His ass belongs out on the street like a bum. He constantly compared me to his exs who cheated on him and kicked his loser ass to the curb. I have a big heart, but I'm sad to say that I bothered with this fool. He is the most pathetic scumbag to walk the planet. He always relies on other people and has no valid goals in life whatsoever. The number #1 thing on his bipolar brain is smoking weed and spending YOUR hard earned money. If he's miserable then ur going to be too thats just how he works. Watch out ladies, he's a hell of a ride.
JOSH MOLKE is blond-haired, blue-eyed, looks like he's on steroids, and VIDEOTAPES GIRLS HAVING SEX WITH HIM without their knowledge. Once you sleep with him and he catches it on camera, he will never call you again. He then posts them on various websites, one being BREAK.com. Don't date him, don't sleep with him, and don't EVER trust him.
He has a steady job
Financially secured
Industrious
Baggage-free
Responsible
Organized
Dedicated
Committed
Honest
Trustworthy
Straightforward
God fearing (a bonus)
Tender Loving Care
Great sense of humor
Still a virgin (wow)
Thats the love of my life
Loves me me me and only me!!!!1
he ignores valentine's day, my birthday, xmas...etc... i send him gifts but he never. he leaves me alone when he wants no matter how i feel............ i feel worthless to him. i think it's all my fault.
DAVID HANCOCK4 IS VERY BAD NEWS! MET ON CHRISTIAN WEBSITE - HE PREYS ON INNOCENT CHRISTIAN WOMEN, ESP. THOSE WITH $, SAYS HES A CHRISTIAN, PATHOLOGICAL LIAR, PREYS ON CHRISTIAN WOMEN ESP. THOSE W/ $, TELLS THEM LIES - 1 ON 1 ONLY, SAYS HE WANTS MARRIAGE & CHILDREN WITH U, & USES WOMEN, WENT FOR PREMARRIAGE CLASS AT A CHURCH BY HIM & PASTOR, TOLD US HE WAS MARRIED 1CE THEN THRU 2ND MARRAIGE WORKBK WE WERE WORKING ON TOLD ME MARRIED 2CE BUT NEITHER WAS CONSIMATED (LOL) TALKED TO BOTH HIS EX WIVES, LAST WIFE OF 8 YRS IS DEATHLY AFFRAID OF HIM, SHE TOLD ME TO SAVE MYSELF & HEAD FOR THE HILLS-NEVER LOOK BACK, THAT IT WAS A GOOD THING I HAD MISCARRIED-HE WOULD OF DISTROYED ITS LIFE! EVERYTHING HE TOUCHES HE DISTROYS, HIDES CELL PHONE & WON'T LET U EVEN LOOK AT OR USE, YANKED HOME PHONE OUT OF WALL WHEN I USED 2 XS FOR DAUGHTER (ON FOR LESS THAN 5 MIN) I EVEN OFFERED TO PAY FOR, ABUSIVE & NEEDS ANGER MANAGMENT, THREATENED MY LIFE WITH GUN TO MY FACE & LAUGHED, THREW ME AROUND & PRETENDED TO PUSH ME DOWN FLIGHT OF STEEP STAIRS WHILE I WAS PREGNANT, I LOST MY (OURS) BABY DUE TO STRESS & ABUSE, HE PUNCHED WALLS COUNTERS STEERING WHEEL, LIES ALOT, FLIRTS & CHEATS WITH OTHER WOMEN (WHEN U CATCH HIM & HAVE PROOF-STILL LIES THEN ARGUES WITH U CUZ HE WAS CAUGHT!), CAN'T KEEP HIS STORIES STRAIGHT,I HAVE WITNESSES (EVEN HIS 2 EX WIVES & EX)GIRLFRIEND) PROOF PICTURES OF ABUSE IN HIS HOUSE BATHROOM & BEDROOM,HE CHEATS AT GAMES, POOR LOSER, NOT FAMILY ORIENTED WHEN HE TOLD ME HE WAS, CHURCH HOPS BECAUSE HE PREYS ON CHRISTIAN WOMEN, ROAD RAGE, IS AN INSTAGATOR, HIDES BEHIND THINGS TO LISTEN TO CONVERSATIONS TO SCARE U OR JUST HIDES, CAN'T KEEP HIS STORIES STRAIGHT, PROMISES THINGS & NEVER DOES KEEP, TELLS U THINGS U WANT TO HEAR BUT DOESN'T MEAN IT OR NOT AT ALL THE TRUTH, HE HAS NO CHARACTER, BACKBONE OR SOULFILLED HEART, DOESN'T ADMIT MISTAKES FAULTS OR ERRORS, USES PEOPLE TO GET THINGS FOR HIM,ABUSES HIS ANIMALS (70 GEESE CHKNS & DUCKS, 2 EMUS, MANY RABBITS, 4 DOGS, COCKATIEL) LIVES BY HIMSELF, I DATED, ENGAGED & LIVED WITH HIM FOR ALMOST 2 YRS-HOUSE WAS DISGUSTINGLY FILTHY,OLD FOOD, MOLD, MOUSE DROPPINGS ALLOVER IN HOUSE, BROKEN WINDOWS, WALLS FLOORS PORCHES & HOUSE FALLING APART (DANGEROUS), WON'T LET FAMILY VISITORS OR DEL. PEOPLE ON HIS PROPERTY, HE IS VERY DANGEROUS & EVIL. HE EVEN TOLD ME MANY XS HE WAS THE 'ANGEL OF LIGHT' I THOUGHT WAS A GODLY THING! ITS THE DEVIL HIMSELF, I HAD SO MANY GUT FEELINGS & WHEN HE CALLED HIMSELF ANGEL OF LIGHT -I THREW UP ON HIM (NOW I KNOW WHY)! THE POLICE PASTORS FAMILY FRIENDS SINGLE & CHRISTIAN WEBSITES ALL TOLD ME TO LET OTHER WOMEN KNOW TO PROTECT THEM. FOR ANY INFO. OR PROOF FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME> C.S P.O BOX 2204 ORLAND PARK IL 60462
HAHA!! MUST SAY THATS QUITE FUNNY BUT WEIRD
my boyfriend. for a couplee of weeks he was a mean selfish jerk who cares about nothing...but now i realized that from that one time when i hurt him, hes never been able to forgive me. && ever since then, we've both been tryin to hurt eachother. but i now know that , he wouldnt be here if he didnt love me. he still has some type of hope, and doesnt wanna leave me. he might not tell me as often as he used to, but he loves me more eachday but hes afraid i might take advantage of him. cant blame him. but i hopee hee starts to trust me again...cuz he is my protector and my everything.
Well.. My boyfriend fucked me off the first time for his ex :| (classy i know haha), then he begged me back for about 3 months and i finally gave in... now we are together things are erm.. ok i guess... his ex still constantly texts him and rings him saying "I need to talk to you" which drives me fucking insane cause how am i meant to know he wont go running back like the last time.. but yeah i give him the benefit of the doubt.. He only compliments me when he is drunk which i dont know whether to take that as an insult or not... he doesnt buy me anything which i dont really care about cause i relationship is not based on teddy bears and diamond necklaces eh.. i see him everyday mostly unless of course he has his playstation night with the guys haha.. he is abit fem so i very much doubt he would protect me from angry men or whatever lol but i am sure i can handle myself so that doesnt bother me either haha one big downfall with him HE CANNOT SAY NO!! ill ask him a question like "do you fancy coming round my sisters for a drink with me?" his answer "er... Yeah i guess.. but i am tired" then we go through all the excuses in the book so he doesnt have to go! FFS!
im so happy because my boyfriend always understands me in everything,he always give sacrifice just for my happiness,he always there for me when i need him,he never treat me like just his girl but his life...im happy with my relation to him.
im very thankful to God for giving me a guy like him that accepts me in everything whatever i am....
My boyfriend is only with me because he doesn't want to be alone. He's fat, ugly, insecure and still has emotional baggage from dating this christian freak 3 years ago.( He still talks about her to this day) When we were together, he cheated on me with his half white half japanese admin and dated the two of us at the same time for several months. He even forced me to give him my virginity even though he was getting some from that little geisha. When he told her about me, she stole my Victoria Secret jacket ( with no attention to returning it back) and criticised all my stuff at his place for being cheap and slutty for her taste. He even forced me and her to be friends at his company outing at an amusement park even though she joked that she plans to break the two of us up if he drinks another cup of coffee. The bitch even turned his entire company against me and he ignored me when I told him that. I tried being civil to her but she got away with being fake nice to my face and saying insulting things about me within earshot to her co- workers.
When I told him about this, he ignored me and said that we should try to be friends on his behalf. Keep in mind he never apologized for cheating on me, never apologized for stealing my virginity and most recently, made me pick out her birthday gift. He especially never apologized for letting her treat me like crap. He still talks to her to this day and she is his facebook friend. I know I am in a terrible relationship since I put up with this crap. I, by far, have the most emotionally insensitive, pathetic, ugliest boyfriend in the entire world...
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